Ep 263: Sex, Puberty and Parenting

Dina Alexander, founder of EducateEmpowerKids.org, joins us to
share her view on how to talk to tweens and teens about S-E-X and
everything that comes with it. Rather than one big “talk” Dina
encourages small, frequent talks to get the message(s) across.
 





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Full Show Notes


Talking about sex with teenagers is notoriously awkward and
uncomfortable for parents. But in today's world, where kids have
unprecedented access to explicit content online, it's more
important than ever to push past that discomfort. Our kids need
us to have open, judgement-free conversations to help them build
healthy relationships and develop positive views on sexuality.


On this week's episode of Talking to Teens, we're speaking with
Dina Alexander, an expert on communicating with kids about sex
and relationships. Dina is the founder of Educate and Empower
Kids and the author of the 30 Days of Sex Talks book series. With
a daughter who is currently a senior in high school, Dina has
plenty of firsthand experience navigating tricky conversations
about sex.


Dina explains why discussions about sex make so many parents
anxious, even as sexual imagery pervades mainstream American
culture. Often, our own experiences and assumptions get in the
way of having constructive talks with teens. We discuss how to
get over those hang-ups so we can have productive dialogues.


Dina has recently released updated editions of her sex talk
books, so we explore what has changed in the past few years when
it comes to teen perspectives on relationships and intimacy. The
proliferation of dating apps and social media has dramatically
impacted how kids today approach romance and physical affection.
Porn aimed specifically at girls and young women has also grown
more prevalent. Dina offers insight into how to address new
challenges.


Throughout the interview, Dina provides tips for making chats
about delicate topics more comfortable and effective. We talk
about starting early, framing discussions around ideals for
healthy relationships, and being willing to answer kids'
questions without judgement. She explains why no one gets sex
talks exactly "right" - the simple act of keeping the
conversation going is what matters.





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