Ep 306: Mathematical Confidence for Parents

Ben Orlin, author of Math for English Majors, joins us to share
how parents can understand and teach math effectively. We explore
how mathematics can be approachable and enjoyable for both
parents and teens.


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Full Show Notes





Math can often feel like an insurmountable challenge, especially
for parents trying to help their teens with homework. Many
parents remember their own struggles with math or may feel
unqualified to help, particularly if they excelled in
non-numerical subjects like English or history. It’s easy to feel
lost when faced with the task of supporting a teen in a subject
that stumped us years ago.


However, the world of math doesn’t have to be daunting. Often,
the barrier isn't the complexity of the subject itself, but the
way it's been traditionally taught. Being able to assist and
guide teens through their math-related challenges can create not
only better academic outcomes but also strengthen your
relationship with them. Shifting the way we understand and
approach teaching math can have a tremendous impact on our teens'
confidence and capabilities.


This week, we’re diving into how parents can gain the
mathematical insight they need to support their teens. We're
joined by Ben Orlin, a seasoned math teacher, and author of the
popular blog, Math with Bad Drawings. Ben's new book, Math for
English Majors, focuses on making math accessible, even for those
who have historically found the subject challenging. His unique
approach, which includes the use of humorously "bad" drawings to
explain mathematical concepts, aims to demystify math and make it
more engaging for everyone.


Math and Its Misunderstood Nature


Ben explains how math is often abstract and how its inherent
structure can put people off, especially when taught in a rigid,
one-size-fits-all classroom. His insights touch on the disconnect
many feel when they believe they are "bad at math", and how the
educational system's approach often heightens this feeling. He
emphasizes the importance of leading with empathy, understanding,
and a willingness to explore the subject differently.


Bridging the Gap with Analogies and Language


One of the key strategies Ben discusses is drawing parallels
between math and language. Just as language has structure and
rules, so does math. By relating mathematical concepts to
linguistic structures that are already familiar to many parents
and teens, he opens new avenues for understanding. A key idea
shared is the notion of thinking of equations not as rigid
commands but as dynamic structures that can be "paraphrased" much
like sentences in a story.


Games: A Gateway to Mathematical Thinking


Ben also delves into the use of games as a tool for making math
more approachable. Games inherently involve strategic thinking
and problem-solving, which are core components of mathematical
thought. He suggests incorporating board games and puzzles into
learning routines to help teens develop a natural comfort with
mathematical reasoning without the pressure of formal education
settings.


Embracing the 'Bad Drawings' Philosophy


A significant part of Ben's teaching philosophy is embracing
imperfection. His "bad drawings" method aims to lower the stakes
and create a more inviting atmosphere for learning math. This
approach removes intimidation and encourages teens to view
mistakes as part of the learning process rather than failures.


In the Episode….


My discussion with Ben Orlin offers valuable insights and
practical tips for parents looking to better support their teens
in math:


How to use everyday language to explain complex math
concepts.

The importance of shifting from a right-or-wrong mindset to
understanding the process in math.

Ways to incorporate games into learning to foster a fun and
enriching math environment.

Practical examples from Ben’s book and classroom experiences
that demonstrate how math can be engaging and accessible.



Additionally, Ben shares his broader thoughts on the essential
role parents play in shaping their teens' educational
experiences.


For listeners interested in further exploring Ben’s methodologies
and drawing some inspiration from his lighthearted yet effective
approach, you can visit his blog at MathwithBadDrawings.com or
follow him on social media platforms like Twitter (@BenOrlin) and
Instagram (@MathwithBadDrawings).


Tune in to this episode to revolutionize your approach to
teaching math and build a more math-friendly household. Don’t
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