15 What does intimacy look like if you are non-monogamous?

Joli studied consensual non-monogamies as a research psychologist
but it is also an important part of our personal relationship
design. We are talking about what intimacy means when you no
longer have the rules of monogamy to guide you.


How vulnerable is too vulnerable with someone outside your
marriage? What does it feel like to know that my partner is happy
without me sometimes? It's all complicated, but not as impossible
as it might seem. 


Consensual non-monogamy isn't the right fit for everyone,
monogamy is beautiful and a great choice for lots of people. But,
polyamory has been making a lot of headlines and popping up in
storylines more and more. If you are curious about what it looks
like from the inside, have a listen. We've found that no matter
what relationship style you choose, we can all learn from each
other.


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