53 How to be happier when big changes threaten your marriage

The many marriages model has helped us manage to stay both
committed and independent over the long term. In this episode we
are talking about what happens when a marriage goes through
inevitable change, because change is the only guarantee we get in
life. So, when change shows up, what do you do?  Do you
resist and try to keep your marriage as it always has been or do
you transition with grace? 


Once again, rituals can facilitate strong, growth-oriented
transitions. Check out chapter 12 in Project Relationship for an
easy template to create a ritual that will help you make the most
of change in your love life: Get the book Project Relationship.


One of the tools we suggest is learning to tolerate ambiguity
because there are big gains to be made when we can do that.
Here's an article from Ness Labs that explains the theory
https://nesslabs.com/ambiguity-effect


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