161 Adopting a Polyamorous Lens with Alex Alberto, Author of Entwined

When we read Entwined, Alex Alberto’s genre-blending memoir, we
felt seen, understood, and represented on a whole new level. We
knew right away that we wanted Alex to join us on Playing With
Fire—and this week’s episode is even better than we could have
imagined!!


Alex’s ground-breaking collection of essays covers beautiful and
difficult parts of polyamory that are rarely discussed in
story-telling formats. They show us how intense and
transformative metamour relationships can be, and they bring us
stories of sex and love that go beyond the romp-in-the-hay
format. Whether you're polyamorous, monogamous, or somewhere in
between, this conversation will expand your understanding of
what's possible in relationships.


In this episode, we discuss:


— Alex’s journey to non-monogamy


— How polyamory can be a path to self-discovery and personal
growth


— The value of intentionality in relationships, regardless of
structure


— How non-monogamy can expand our capacity for joy and connection


— Appreciating the day-to-day realities of non-monogamous
relationships, even the challenging parts


— The beauty and importance of metamour relationships in
polyamorous dynamics


— The power of storytelling in normalizing and validating
non-traditional relationships


— The need for diverse representation in polyamory media


— Parenting, co-parenting, and navigating the societal pressures
of raising a child in a non-monogamous family dynamic


— Embracing change and transitions in long-term partnerships


Resources mentioned in this episode:


— Alex's book, Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home


— Alex's website


— Alex's Instagram and TikTok: @thatalexalberto


— The upcoming magazine Entwined Mag


Join the global Week of Visibility for Non-monogamy – July 15-21.
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Read the transcript of this episode here


Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions