163 Playfulness, Vulnerability, and Parenting with Abbey & Liam from Evolving Love

Abbey and Liam approach building conscious relationships in a way
that’s refreshing, pragmatic, playful, and authentic, all at
once. Their work focuses on creating space for open, real
conversations about non-monogamy, and they’re really good at it!!


In this episode, Abbey and Liam share a lot about their journeys,
including their gradual, relaxed approach to coming out as
non-monogamous, how they prioritize parenting, and how they
navigate challenges like jealousy, boundaries, commitment, and
communication.


In this episode, we talk about:


— How Abby and Liam gradually came out as non-monogamous to
friends and family


— Their experiences balancing non-monogamy and parenting a young
child


— The importance of age-appropriate conversations about
relationships with kids


— How non-monogamy has enhanced their connection as a couple


— Navigating jealousy, including Liam's "motorbike rule"


— The role of humor and levity in addressing relationship
challenges


— How non-monogamy connects to mortality and living life fully


— The value of open communication in relationships


— Unpacking safety concerns vs. attachment fears in setting
boundaries


Resources mentioned in this episode:


— The Evolving Love Project podcast


— The Evolving Love Project Substack


— Abbey's upcoming women's retreat in May 2024


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Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions