"You're such a liar brain": Who, me? Sex Addiction?

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'Brain, I'm telling you - you don't fight fair. Underhand. Dirty.
I'm trying to do this for us. Are you listening to me?'


I do a strange thing with everyone of my Sex Addiction clients.
Multi-talented as I am, I do brain surgery on each one. (Mine is
a bit crude and I don't use anaesthesia!) 


I cut off the top of the skull of each of my clients. I lift
their brain out of their skull and put it on the chair next to
them. (Don't forget to take it with you when you leave client).


Why do I do something so bizarre like that? I want to highlight
the fact that in Sex Addiction work, your brain is NOT
necessarily your best friend. It will sabotage. It will work
against you. (At least initially, until it gets to know and like
the repeated good outcomes and also built-in 'Treats &
Rewards').


It does not like me the Therapist.  It does not trust me and
is cautioning you against me. After-all, you are working with me
to dismantle and take away a coping strategy which your brain
gave you all those many years ago - which it believes 'works' and
has been 'working' for many years, to manage you; the Addiction.


Here is what a further conversation with your brain on the other
chair, might sound like: "They work. So why are you and that
busy-body Therapist seeking to dismantle them? Even worse; I
don't know what you are going to replace them with and so why
should I trust you, work with you and help you? I am going to put
up a fight and give you Cognitive Distortions. That will
dilute the truth of your situation(s), so that you give up this
Recovery Programme attempt at changing what works - good enough
all those past years''.


Your brain on the other chair has diluted and trivialised the
shame impact, the damage caused and the poorer quality of life.
As if it has amnesia.


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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR
Practitioner.
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