Sex Addicts - Sex Ed that 'Porn & Peers' didn't teach you (3)

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In all your getting, get understanding: Men see female
promiscuity as a deal breaker. If a man finds that a woman is not
sexually active, he will intuitively feel that she is more likely
to be faithful. Sexual integrity and sexual loyalty, is the most
valued traits in a women, when a man is considering asking her to
marry him.


"Female Choice" and " Paternity Certainty" are significant
issues. "Female Choice" is something about the qualities a female
is looking for in a long term male partner. Such things like - is
he likely to be around, when she is pregnant; carrying the baby
and able to hunt and look after them and ensure survival.


"Paternity Certainty" is about men needing to know that the
female is trustworthy. She is the only one that will truly know
whether the baby she is carrying, is actually his baby.
Therefore, he needs to choose someone who is trustworthy and not
promiscuous.


So, men categorise females: Are they 'easy' sexually? or are they
'for a good time' only. If they are not 'easy', then they may be
categorised in the 'potential marriage partner' category. Most
females don't know this dynamic is happening.


After sexual intercourse, a woman's evaluation of a man may go
up. That is because of the effects of Dopamine and Oxytocin in
her metabolism. She gets lots of those bonding hormones during
sex.


So females are more likely bonding, but males are less likely to
be bonding in situations where the Sex is 'easy' and/or
'promiscuous'.


Males evaluation of her is likely to be going down within 10
seconds of his ejaculation. The converse may be happening for the
female. Her evaluation of him may be going up, due to the effects
of the hormones in her body.


Folks, the 'Madonna-Whore Complex' is alive and well.


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