Shame and healing through EMDR

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Shame keeps Trauma in place, because it gets in the way of us
seeking out and getting the help that we need. In the UK a mental
health diagnosis remains a sign of weakness. We readily seek help
from a Doctor where we have a pathology in the body, but much
less so for the more debilitating psychological pathology which
stops us functioning effectively.

Thank you Prince Harry for recently bringing the role of EMDR
(Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) to a higher profile
by showing to us that decades later, unresolved and unprocessed
pathology can be healed. For many, Shame stops them getting help.
Shame underpins the block.

Shame + Narcissisim = Sex Addiction and so the role of Shame
needs to be understood and exposed. A process, such as EMDR, has
a clear role. It works!

Process unresolved issues or 5, 10, 20, 30, 40 plus years, which
may still be the trigger, setting up the desire to self
soothe.

Let the team at The Kairos Centre Team show you how.

Presented by The Kairos Centre - Bringing colour back to life -
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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs)
is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor,
Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling
Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction
& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR
Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure
webcam.
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