Partners of Sex Addicts cry out: ".....and what about me" (the silent partner affected)

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The Kairos Centre Recovery Programme is about the couple
recovery, not only the person with the addiction behaviours -
where you are in a partnered relationship.

Sit in the seat or walk in the shoes of the partner affected and
see life from their vantage point - if you dear - if you
can!

Difficult to stay with it since to do so means subduing  and
turning off inclinations toward narcissism. Take a glimpse
through their lens before narcissism kids back in. Empathise with
their pain. Even that empathy will take you only so far in your
quest for sobriety.

 "White knuckling it" will last only so long. It runs out of
puff? "Round and round the mulberry bush you go" again after a
short while.

Remember that the umbrella of Shame covers both of you and
so will also take the partner into hiding as well as you.

The Kairos Centre work with multiple numbers of partners
(particularly female partners) adversely affected and traumatised
by the addiction behaviours of the other. Let us support
you.

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs)
is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor,
Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling
Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction
& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR
Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure
webcam.
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral
Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing
Journeys | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships |
Empowerment | Childhood Development | Parental Influence | Family
Dynamics | Attachment Theory | Early Experiences | Coping
Mechanisms | Emotional Regulation Techniques | Resilience
Building | Social Support | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy |
Mindfulness Practices | Self-Compassion | Inner Child Work |
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