Taking Responsibility - for your choices in Sex, Porn, Love Addiction behaviours

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Having completed the extensive History Taking (by asking lots of
questions over three sessions) to build a profile of our clients
from birth to current age, we then give feedback and diagnosis.
That includes an hypothesis as to the Role, Function &
Purpose which the behaviours serve.

It is important not to hide behind the feedback which finds that
something happened to you in childhood development; therefore
current behaviour patterns are not your fault. Not true!

Not a level playing field, but own the fact that when you became
an adult, you are responsible for your positive choices and
negative choices. The sobriety and recovery that you therefore
achieve from positive choices, belong to you.

I do something strange with my clients. I do brain surgery. I cut
the top of the skull off and lift out their brains. I put it on a
chair next to them and explain that their brain is not their best
friend during the recovery programme. It will sabotage, until
treats & rewards kick in and it can see good reward for good
behaviour.

None of this make much sense?  Let The Kairos Centre unravel
it for you.

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs)
is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor,
Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling
Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction
& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR
Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure
webcam.
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral
Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing
Journeys | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships |
Empowerment | Childhood Development | Parental Influence | Family
Dynamics | Attachment Theory | Early Experiences | Coping
Mechanisms | Emotional Regulation Techniques | Resilience
Building | Social Support | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy |