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Early years fostered, Adopted, Immigrate, parents separation
& divorce, verbal, physical, sexual and/or spiritual abuse,
Boarding school, premature birth, incubated, mothers post-natal
depression, alcoholic, drug use, parent working away a lot,
emotionally absent even when they are home - are just some
contributing causes for setting up INSECURE ATTACHMENT - which
may later manifest in how the adult child will go on to do
interpersonal relationships.

We all need a lighthouse that is stable during the earliest years
of childhood development. A black hole void gets set up; that
insecure Attachment behaviours try to fill, when that childhood
development period is not negotiated through in a "good enough"
manner. There then follows, attempts throughout adulthood
relationships to repeatedly repeatedly use conscious and
unconscious processes to try to fill the void = LOVE
ADDICTION.

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