Trauma related Triggers: Know yours in Sex, Porn Love Addiction Recovery

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We will say that Sex/Porn/Love Addiction is set up in one of
three ways - Opportunity, Attachment issues and/or Trauma. Trauma
is not necessarily limited to big events that happen in a war
zone.

It is also the impact on a seven years old, whose Game Console is
taken by a friend and when they knock on the friends door to get
it back, a parent slams the door saying "It isn't yours; I bought
it for my child". The child runs home crying, but there is not a
parent who fights their corner.

Self-soothing from even low key trauma events and occurrences,
can lead to compulsive self-soothing behaviours from a young age.
Over time, the brain comes across and gravitates to more intense
patterns of behaviours, such as Sex/Porn/Love compulsivity
activities.

Treat and process trauma first, before embarking on a Recovery
Programme or 12 steps group; otherwise the unresolved and
unprocessed trauma will bite you in the bum again, at a later
date when the perfect storm appears.

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Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
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& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral
Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing
Journeys | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships |
Empowerment | Childhood Development | Parental Influence | Family
Dynamics | Attachment Theory | Early Experiences | Coping
Mechanisms | Emotional Regulation Techniques | Resilience
Building | Social Support | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy |
Mindfulness Practices | Self-Compassion | Trauma Recovery |
Healing from Trauma | Trauma Therapy | Coping with Trauma |
Unders