Negative CORE BELIEFS about self leads to Sex, Porn Love Addiction self-soothing

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You have heard me repeatedly rabbit on with this mantra haven't
you? What you do not understand, you have no hope of influencing;
no hope of changing or even embark upon the change process - (and
change is a process from A to Z).

Why? Because the stuff you don't understand, lives in the
unconscious. It works away below the "Mission Impossible" infra
red light and no loud alarm is triggering to bring it to your
attention.

What you must, must, must, must do, is move the stuff from the
unseen; from the un-understood; from the invisible; from the
unconscious, into the conscious; therefore above the "Mission
Impossible" infra red light, so the alarm is triggered.

Why? Because what you can now see; can now better understand; you
get a chance now to affect; to influence; to change.

Problem! Change is a process. Just because you can see it; you
can better understand it,  does not mean you can change it
IMMEDIATELY. What you must recognise, however, is that
change has begun; because you can now see the problem. It
can never be the same again, even if it is not yet changed.

You have now embarked on the stages of change. Change has begun.
Be patient and build consistently - one brick upon another - one
at a time - consistently. Then you will reach your destiny - that
of sobriety.

One such hiddenness is that of understanding your Negative Core
Beliefs, which are fundamental drivers influencing and shaping
how you are doing life; thus beckoning self soothing behaviours
that cause you to turn to sex, porn, love addiction acting out
activities. Get it?

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs)
is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor,
Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling
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& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Traumatic Bonding | Objectification | Hypers