Don't believe the lie - during your Sex, Porn, Love Addiction thinking Distortion

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Know you, know self, know your brain. It is not always your
bestest bestest bff. It often is working against what is good for
you, at the behest of what it perceives as being right for you -
in the moment. But not all your senses have been consulted
beforehand.

It does not always tell you the whole truth and nothing but the
whole truth. In fact, it can very brazenly sabotage what is good
for you, in its assessment of what it believes it is doing to
protect you from discomfort. 

It is "Preparation" to act out activities - coming out of your
"Cognitive Distortions; your thinking distortions; your misguided
thinking; your ulterior motivation thinking.

Remember that CYCLE OF SEX ADDICTION - viewed on a clock face -
going clockwise -  as stages you go through,
from: 

•ACTING OUT; to


•REGRET; to


•RECONSTITUTION; to


•DORMANT; to


•TRIGGER; to


•PREPARATION; back to ACTING OUT


Call it out. Name it. Shame it. Expose it. It isn't true. It
isn't truth. It isn't the best for you.

Cognitive Distortions will keep on keeping on showing themselves.
What are yours?

If you don't know what they are; if you don't spot them; can't
spot them; don't change them - you are 10 minutes from acting
out; from them biting you in the bum again and again and again
and again and again and again and again.......

Get it?

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs)
is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor,
Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction
treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling
Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction
& Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of
the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye
movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR
Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure
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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachmen