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Defining the difference between Sex addiction & Love
addiction:


Love addiction is all about trying to getting attention and a
sense of feeling wanted, even if the attention is being paid for
– since any attention is better than no attention. It has its
roots in childhood development causing Insecure Attachment; a
sense of rejection and loss – due to a disruption in the early
years bonding with key parental figures.


So, there is a searching out, using such activities as dating
sites, chat sites, web cam interaction and other methods of
interacting with others, to give a temporary sense of being
wanted; that may lead to a sense of feeling love and affection.
You never fill that void for very long. You leak and keep
searching to fill the leak. That might mean giving sex away to
get the affection and sense of being wanted, but after the sex,
may come rejection again and therefore repeat hurt for a season;
eventually getting up and doing it again.

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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Pain |
Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Emotional Event |
Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction
Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral
Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing
Journeys | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships |
Empowerment | Relationships and Reputation | Social Dynamics |
Reputation Management | Building Trust | Communication in
Relationships | Trustworthiness | Integrity in Relationships |
Maintaining Positive Image | Personal Branding | Trust Building
Strategies | Honesty in Relationships | Transparency in
Communication | Authenticity in Relationships | Relationship
Boundaries | Love Addiction | Relationship Dependency | Obsessive
Love | Romance Addiction | Co-Dependency | Unhealthy Attachments
| Fear of Abandonment | Need for External Validation |
Relationship Patterns | Codependent Relationships | Intense
Emotional Dependency | Compulsive Relat