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Getting help is not a sign of weakness.


Repeated Negative patterns of behaviours, give a glimpse of a
problem. I take me into the relationship and is me being me,
doing life how I do life – “What’s the problem?”; the problem
must be you.


There is no problem if there is no problem; but when you know
there is a problem – because life just is not working well for
you - then you need to lift your head up and acknowledge that you
may need a third party (a Therapist) to come alongside you. Do it
– even whilst kicking and screaming and your finger nails are
leaving marks in the carpet as you are dragged across the carpet
into the Therapist's office (or made much easier for you now –
Online!)

That sounds like my journey; kicking and screaming, that only
Freud could unravel a complex being like me! (That was my long
time avoidant strategy. "After all, I am a Black man and I aim't
sharing me with some busy-body Counsellor. I can do this....")


Your partner is going to be a mirror, reflecting "you" back onto
you and bringing out/triggering out – you and your stuff. Don’t
ditch the partner yet. Maybe work through your stuff first, then
decide if you still want to ditch the partner; after all, you are
destined to take you and your stuff into any new relationship and
repeat the same old, same old. It will just look a little
differently with that new partner. Get it?


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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral