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Interview with Roman Mironov of NOFAP (4)

Root causes of negative impact on the brain, to cause it to
gravitate to self-soothing behaviours?


What do you think were the issues which caused your brain to
gravitate to self-soothing from those negative impactful
behaviours, during those early developing younger years of life
(often before puberty)? Bullying, abuse, sexual abuse, parents
arguing, witnessing domestic violence, over zealous punishment,
comparison with a sibling, never good enough, not fit in,
ostracised, parents’ separation and/or divorce, pressure to
perform at school, witnessing assaults, fear for safety of
self-and/or others…… (What was yours?)


Use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) to first
address the event, BEFORE embarking upon a Recovery Programme or
a 12 Steps Programme. Make the first thing the first thing first!


You WILL still need a Recovery Programme – to breakdown the
negative neural pathways - but by going after the
“Cognitve/thinking/ setting up”, you increase the
“tendency/propensity” for good outcomes from a Recovery
Programme. Make sense?


What was and still is the Emotional event for you? Trauma,
Anxiety, Stress, Pain, Fear, Panic Attack, Complicated grief,
Grieving, Dissociation, Anger, Phobias, Performance Anxiety,
Personality disorders…….?


“Trauma is the external wound, not the internal event” – Gabor
Mate

“Trauma is a story that has not moved on”. It is a “story”
because of the truths that your brain made of the event when it
unfolded; but it may not be the full reality because of the
compromised brain functioning at the time of the event; (ie
logical brain not fully online at the time) – but it is set up in
the body - from what all five senses took in at the time.


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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy | Trauma
Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | Sex Addiction
Recovery Program