Sex, Porn, Love Addiction keeps you in a loop - with unresolved past (t)(T)rauma

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Interview by Damian Andrews of SHAIR.care: What it means to be a
man (8)

"What! I no longer need to do traditional 'Talk Therapy', to
address my past impactful stuff of life? Tell me more!"

Call it a little “t” trauma – that I cannot even see in my lovely
family upbringing or big "T". Trauma isn’t only what happens in
the Middle East or Afghanistan. It can be the 6 years old whose
action man was taken by the boy down the road and when he went to
get it, the boys dad slammed the door in his face and told him to
go away. It can be the 7 years old little girl whose friend took
her Barbie doll and went off with her best friend and was
excluded by the two girls.

Why do they remember those events 30 years later? "What has those
events got to do with me getting so, so annoyed when my patner
uses MY stuff and doesn't put them back. I don't mind them being
used, just put them...."


Getting help can itself be “Shame” and not acceptable to share
stuff outside of the family. Many are locked in with their
unresolved issues due to culture and family dynamics.


Scientific research has established EMDR as effective for
post-traumatic stress. Clinicians also have reported success
using EMDR in treatment of the following conditions: Panic
attacks, Complicated grief, Dissociative disorders, Disturbing
memories, Phobias, Pain disorders, Performance anxiety, Stress
reduction, Addictions, Sexual and/or Physical abuse, Body
dysmorphic disorders, Personality Disorders…..and many, many
more.


“Trauma is the external wound, not the internal event” – Gabor
Mate


“Trauma is a story that has not moved on”. It is a “story”
because of the truths that your brain made of the event when it
unfolded; but it may not be the full reality because of the
compromised brain functioning at the time of the event – but it
is set up in the body - from what all five senses took in at the
time. Get it?

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR
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