Love Addicts hate themselves - but don't tell

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Love Addiction is often a response to Insecure Attachment. It
looks like it is about sex and chasing sexual outlets, but it
isn't really about sex - as the core desire.

It is an attempt to gain a sense of 'being wanted', 'being a part
of...','accepted', 'owned', 'wanted', 'secure', 'held', 'needed',
'wanted', 'safe', 'protected', 'belonging',

The class clown will play up to that carved out role, because of
a recognition that they get laughs. Through the back door, laughs
gives a temporary sense of being a part of the group - where life
mostly is a sense of not belonging, excluded, rejected, not
acceptable.

Any attention is better than no attention. The crumbs off the
table is better than nothing.

Friends looking on in frustration and annoyance at the behaviours
- self, observing own behaviours - adds to the self-deprecation.
The Addict is frustrated. Logic evades them all. The behaviours
make no sense. The costs and repercussions from doing the
behaviours, make no sense; don't add up.

The repetition, the risk taking, the boundary crossing, the
trashing own Values and trespassing beyond own comfort levels -
makes no logically sense.

"Why do I do the things which I don't want to do and not do the
things which I ought to do?"

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR
Practitioner.
Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction |
Love Addiction | Root Causes | Brain Impact | Self-Soothing
Behaviors | Family Conflict | Emotional Neglect | Peer Pressure |
Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety |
Stress | Pain | Dissociation| Recovery Program | EMDR Therapy |
Emotional Event | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online
Therapy | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Compulsive Behaviors |
Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Guilt
| Infidelity | Traumatic Bonding | Objectification |
Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Love Addiction
Patterns | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral
Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Healing
Journeys | Intimacy Building |