Ep. 2: The Problem With Top/Bottom with Sergio Zapata

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Are you a top, bottom, vers, vers bottom, vers top, power bottom,
dom top...? The list goes on! In this episode, I'm joined by
Sergio Zapata in a conversation about how these gay sexual
position preferences are empowering or limiting our sex life.
Kicking the episode off with a candid sex story of how I
negotiated these labels within me, we chat about whether being a
top or bottom is something we're born with or not, we explore the
interplay between these positions and masculine/feminine energies
and share ways of exploring our sexuality beyond these labels.





Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to
challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics
of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for
healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question
the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to
overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone,
homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated
with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and
authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the
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I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1
bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I
was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a
futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called
myself a human abomination and almost took my own life.
Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured
on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual
awakening.


Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and
rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept
things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and
disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay
stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and
relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth.
https://georgelizos.com/





About Sergio





Sergio Zapata, label-less, but if there was a description of him
it would be an alchemist, a person who transforms or creates
something through a seemingly magical process. Growing up in an
evangelical Christian household, bound to scriptures and dogmas
of a strict patriarchy he broke through it all to create a life
of his own where he could deconstruct his faith and develop self
acceptance not just as a gay man, but a human.


In search of truth and clarity he continued his education in the
field of architecture in NYC where he found a home and a way of
life for him to thrive and develop a sense of self. Now an
architect transforming living spaces as his formal career, he
also dedicates his time in the study of mysticism, religion,
shamanism, self development and wisdom seeking. Living in a world
so concrete and earthly as architecture, but also dwelling in
esoteric practices as spirituality he finds the duality of both
worlds to balance and compliment each other, creating a
harmonious life.


He is an alchemist continuing to transform his own life through a
seemingly magical process, and helping others to find that magic
of their own by shining his own light unapologetically. 


Connect with Sergio at https://www.instagram.com/sergio0zapata/





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