Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   In this episode, we explore what sexual fluidity really means and why so many people feel unseen by rigid labels and binary ways of thinking. Mark Cusack joins me to unpack how fluidity shows up in attraction, identity, and lived experience, and to challenge common misconceptions about what it means to be fluid. We talk about why pressure to “pick a label” can create guilt, shame, or confusion, and how fluidity can coexist with identities such as bisexuality, multisexuality, asexuality, and gender fluidity.  We also dive into the real-life realities of being fluid, including dating and relationships, coming out when your identity feels shifting or hard to define, and navigating anxiety or isolation when others struggle to understand or trust fluidity. Drawing from research and personal stories, this conversation offers reassurance, language, and mindset shifts for anyone whose sexuality does not stay fixed over time — and for allies who want to understand better.  Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership ABOUT MARK CUSACK Mark Cusack is an author, lecturer and coach who specialises in supporting people with complex, fluid or undefined orientation and gender. Mark runs the online platform @notdefining where he raises awareness of the less talked about parts of the sexuality and gender spectrums. Website: https://www.notdefining.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notdefining/ Book: "Fluid": https://uk.jkp.com/products/fluid CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this insightful episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore the world of BDSM topping through the wisdom of The New Topping Book. We dive into what it really means to take the lead in a scene — from the mindset shifts that help new tops build confidence, to the balance of power and care that makes BDSM both safe and deeply pleasurable. Janet shares practical tools for communicating clearly without killing the mood, navigating nerves or insecurities, and embracing topping as a creative, collaborative craft rather than a performance you need to “get right.”  We also explore the emotional and psychological layers of topping—how to stay present, attuned, and aware of the deeper dynamics in more intense play. Janet highlights the ethical responsibilities of a top, the importance of aftercare for both partners, and how community and mentorship support growth. Whether you're new or experienced, this conversation offers a grounded guide to leading scenes with confidence, clarity, and heart. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership ABOUT JANET W HARDY Janet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books, including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies. Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon. Website: https://janetwhardyauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janetwhardy/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this eye-opening episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore what it truly means to be a bottom in BDSM. We dive into the roles, motivations, and emotional nuances behind bottoming, along with the communication skills that make scenes safer and more satisfying. Janet shares practical guidance on how bottoms can express what they want, set clear limits, choose supportive safewords, and prepare for scenes with confidence and clarity.  We also get into the embodied experience of bottoming, from navigating sensation and pain to understanding endorphins and staying grounded in bottom space. Janet offers insight into emotional vulnerability, aftercare, finding compatible partners or communities, and exploring more intense forms of play while staying supported and self-aware. This conversation is designed to empower anyone who wants to approach bottoming with skill, intention, and pleasure.  Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership ABOUT JANET W HARDY Janet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books, including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies. Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon. Website: https://janetwhardyauthor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janetwhardy/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this candid and educational episode, we unpack the facts and myths around sexual health, HIV prevention, and STI testing. Christos Krasidis joins me for a practical, stigma-free conversation about what it really means to take care of your sexual health in today’s world. We explore how to spot early STI symptoms, when and how often to get tested, and why testing regularly should be treated as an act of self-care rather than something to feel ashamed of.  We also break down the differences between PrEP, PEP, and condoms, discuss who should consider which option, and talk about the emotional side of sexual health — from handling a diagnosis to reducing fear and anxiety. Whether you’re curious about prevention, looking to build more confidence in your sex life, or ready to drop the shame around testing, this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and inspired to take charge of your wellbeing.  Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership ABOUT CHRISTOS KRASIDIS Christos Krasidis is an activist, professional trainer and international consultant for sexual health, combination prevention and human rights. He is currently the Chairperson of the AIDS Solidarity Movement in Cyprus and has served as the Steering Committee chairperson of AIDS Action Europe and a member of the Steering Committee of “Cobatest”, a network of organisations across Europe that offer community-based voluntary counselling and testing (CBVCT) services. He is also an active member and trainer of EATG (European AIDS Treatment Group) since 2018, and participates as a community expert in the ECDC EU/EEA Sexually Transmitted Infections Network Coordination Committee (STI NCC), and in WHO Europe’s informal workgroup for MPOX. He is a Community Health Worker at the Cy Checkpoint, a PrEP peer-consultant at the Cyprus PrEP Point and the Communications Representative for AIDS Solidarity Movement. Website: http://cycheckpoint.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cy.checkpoint?igsh=MTF5NTB6enA1N3Zvcg== CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.