Ep.75: The Ultimate BDSM Topping Guide with Janet W Hardy

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In this insightful episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore the
world of BDSM topping through the wisdom of The New Topping Book.
We dive into what it really means to take the lead in a scene —
from the mindset shifts that help new tops build confidence, to
the balance of power and care that makes BDSM both safe and
deeply pleasurable. Janet shares practical tools for
communicating clearly without killing the mood, navigating nerves
or insecurities, and embracing topping as a creative,
collaborative craft rather than a performance you need to “get
right.” 


We also explore the emotional and psychological layers of
topping—how to stay present, attuned, and aware of the deeper
dynamics in more intense play. Janet highlights the ethical
responsibilities of a top, the importance of aftercare for both
partners, and how community and mentorship support growth.
Whether you're new or experienced, this conversation offers a
grounded guide to leading scenes with confidence, clarity, and
heart.


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ABOUT JANET W HARDY


Janet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her
groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She
has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books,
including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies.
Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical
multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in
documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and
served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five
years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she
continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports
sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon.


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