Ep. 5: Gay Sex Tantra with Finn Deerhart

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How can we have more fulfilling and intimate sex? In this chat
with gay sex tantra coach Finn Deerhart, we talk about the ins
and outs of our sexual lives and the journey we can take to have
more fulfilling sexual experiences. Specifically, we discuss how
shame affects our sex lives, how to communicate our desires and
preferences in sex, and how to use porn as a tool for
self-inquiry and personal growth. Finn also shares practical
exercises we can use to deepen our connection to our bodies and
partners during sex. 


Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to
challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics
of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for
healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question
the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to
overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone,
homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated
with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and
authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the
right place!





About Me





I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1
bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I
was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a
futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called
myself a human abomination and almost took my own life.
Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured
on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual
awakening.


Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and
rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept
things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and
disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay
stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and
relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth.
https://georgelizos.com/





About Finn





Finn Deerhart is a sex and intimacy coach, helping gay and queer
men ignite their eroticism and step into their emergent selves.
Through my courses, workshops, retreats, and private sessions,
men learn tools to confront their limitations, unravel internal
narratives of shame, and spark deeper human connections—grounding
themselves into a deeper experience of life. He also creates
educational erotic content and provides on-site erotic coaching
for various organizations, including Himeros TV, an online
service that provides explicit educational content for queer men.





Finn’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/finndeerhart 


Finn’s website: https://www.finndeerhart.com 





Resources Mentioned





Polysecure, by Jessica Fern:
https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/


Velvet Rage, by Alan Downs:
https://www.amazon.com/Velvet-Rage-Overcoming-Growing-Straight/dp/0738215678/


The Craft of Family Therapy, by Salvador Minuchin:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0415708125/


The Art of Receiving and Giving, by Betty Martin:
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Receiving-Giving-Wheel-Consent/dp/1643883089/


Jason Tantra: https://www.tantra4gaymen.co.uk/facilitators-jason/





Connect With Me





Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 


Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 


TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 


Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/





My Books





Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 


Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 


Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd 





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