E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong

Ready for our go-to masterclass on one of the most overlooked (but
absolutely essential) parts of intimacy? We’re bringing back one of
our most downloaded episodes of all time — and trust us, it’s worth
a re-listen (or a first-time bender if you’re new around here).
Foreplay — the most misunderstood, rushed-through, and skipped-over
part of sex. But here’s the truth: foreplay isn’t optional. It’s
not just a warm-up. It’s the whole damn vibe. In this episode,
we’re breaking down the 5 biggest mistakes couples make when it
comes to foreplay — and how to turn things around so it actually
feels good (for both of you). Here’s what we’re diving into: Why
“just get to the point” is killing the vibe What makes receiving
foreplay so hard (especially for women — hi, it’s not your fault)
The most common foreplay ruts we all fall into How to make foreplay
fun again — not forced, awkward, or performative A mindset shift
that will change how you think about sex forever Whether you’re
feeling stuck, unsure what your partner wants, or just ready for a
heck of a lot more pleasure… this episode is your permission slip.
Links & Resources: The Ultimate Foreplay Guides ︎
https://buy.vmtherapy.com/ultimate-foreplay-guides?ref=podcast-207&utm_term=podcast-207
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