E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex

Ask a sex therapist is back! Have you ever Googled something about
sex and then immediately deleted your search history? In this
week’s episode, Vanessa (a sex therapist with 20+ years of
experience) and Xander (her ever-curious, regular dude husband)
answer your most personal, pressing, wait-am-I-the-only-one?
questions about sex, intimacy, and everything in between. Here’s
what we’re diving into: Is it weird if my partner and I don’t kiss
during sex? (Pretty Woman, anyone?) What exactly is pegging? Is it
normal for other things to be “better than sex”? Can using a penis
pump have consequences? Should you get a vasectomy? (Xander’s in
the club!) Postpartum sex — what are men really thinking? Can
responsive/spontaneous desire be taught? Like can you switch your
type? ️ Ready to go deeper? Your questions deserve more than just a
quick answer. Inside our monthly membership Deeper, we help you
actually take the next step — with expert-designed tools, guided
content, live sessions with us, and unlimited access to Vanessa AI
(your 24/7 virtual sex and relationship coach). Podcast listeners
get 25% off your first month! Use the code PILLOW at checkout right
here https://vmtherapy.com/deeper Resources Mentioned: Ultimate
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