E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm

The female orgasm: we’ve talked about it a lot over the years, but
it never stops being one of the most requested, most misunderstood,
and most fascinating topics we cover. In this episode, we’re
flipping the script and looking at orgasm through a partner’s eyes.
What does it mean to be supportive? How can you tell if she’s
actually orgasming? And why is it so inconsistent? We’re answering
your most Googled questions, plus the ones you’ve been too
embarrassed to type into a search bar. Here’s what we’re getting
into: Why women fake orgasms (and what to do about it) What to say
if your partner has never had one before How to know if she’s
really having an orgasm The truth about female performance anxiety
Which positions are best for helping her O How to help her
experience multiple orgasms G-spot orgasms and squirting: can you
make them happen? What to do while she’s orgasming (hint: don’t
freeze!) How to make it last longer + aftercare Check out Finishing
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Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 04:00 – Why do women fake it? 12:50 – How
to be a supportive partner 25:38 – Can I tell if she's orgasming?
26:25 – Do some women not need to finish? 31:45 – Can women have
performance anxiety about orgasms? 33:06 – Best positions for
female pleasure 38:27 – Why are female orgasms inconsistent? 42:56
– How do I get my wife to have more than one 0? 46:42 – G-spot
orgasms and squirting 47:58 – What am I supposed to do while she’s
coming? 49:33 – How to make your partner’s 0 last longer
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