Overcoming the Fear of Being Seen

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Ever stood frozen at the edge of sharing your creative work,
paralyzed by what others might think? You're not
alone. 

The moment we consider making something private into something
public, our brains construct elaborate stories about potential
judgment, criticism, and rejection. But what if these "high
stakes" are merely illusions? This coaching conversation dives
deep into the psychology behind our fear of being seen and offers
a powerful reframe: stakes only exist if we decide they do.

When that voice in your head grows louder, telling you to stay
hidden, it's actually a sign you're approaching something deeply
important. "Fear is a mask for desire," as we explore in this
episode. That protective instinct intensifies precisely when
you're closest to what you truly want. Understanding this pattern
can transform how you approach vulnerability and creative
expression.

We also confront the "grandiose thinking" that makes us believe
others are deeply invested in judging our work when, in reality,
most people are far more concerned with their own lives than with
critiquing yours. The truly important question isn't what others
might think, but rather: What about the stakes of regret for not
trying at all?

Whether you're a creator, performer, entrepreneur, or simply
someone who hesitates to speak up in meetings, this episode
provides the perspective shift needed to move past fear and into
authentic expression. Ready to rewrite the stories that keep you
playing small? Listen now and discover what becomes possible when
you release the imaginary stakes holding you back.


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