E197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death Grip

Ever wish you had a sex therapist on speed dial? We
get so many questions every week (because you guys are
THE BEST) that we just can’t get to them all—so today, we’re
dedicating an entire episode to answering your biggest intimacy and
relationship dilemmas. From navigating mismatched libidos to
handling awkward bedroom moments, we’re here to break it all down
with practical, shame-free advice. In This Episode, We Cover: How
to address it when your partner gropes you in their sleep Balancing
household chores with a partner who wants affection right now
What to do if your partner struggles with death grip Bouncing back
after a disappointing sexual experience Is “sexual frustration”
really a thing? How to stop being defensive in your marriage NEW
FREE Guide! Ever struggle with how to start intimacy? We
joke a lot about bad initiation styles (hello, awkward boob grabs)
but we want to help you find what actually works. That’s
why we created a brand-new FREE guide to help you figure out
your initiation style—so you and your partner can create a
spark your way.  Download it for FREE
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