E198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know)

Initiating sex in your relationship should feel exciting, not
frustrating—but let’s be real… for most couples, it’s
anything but smooth. Whether you're feeling stuck,
rejected, or just plain awkward when it comes to getting things
started in the bedroom, today’s episode is here to help! We
surveyed our audience, and only 17% of people said
they’re happy with how initiation is going in their relationship.
That means a lot of us are struggling with: Feeling like
one partner is always initiating while the other never does Getting
caught off guard and feeling pressured to have sex in the moment
Waiting until the end of the night, when you're both exhausted
Using "lazy" or unsexy initiation attempts (boob honks, anyone?)
Feeling like your partner only flirts when
they want something Sound familiar? You’re not alone. In
this episode, we’re breaking down the most common mistakes
couples make when initiating sex. ===============================
What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ===============================
The #1 reason why most couples struggle with initiation
Why timing matters just as much as how you
initiate The major mistake that makes sex feel like a pop quiz—and
what to do instead What to say (and what not to say) when
initiating sex How to make your partner
feel wanted instead of pressured And of course,
we’re sharing our top tool to completely transform the way you
initiate—so you and your partner can experience more connection,
better intimacy, and yes… way more satisfying sex!
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Other Resources Mentioned:  Figure out your initiation
style—so you and your partner can find what actually works for you
 https://free.vmtherapy.com/initiation-style-guide
 Foreplay Guides, Ultimate Sex Guide, &
More!  https://vmtherapy.com/courses?ref=podcast-198&utm_term=podcast-198
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