Is asking for help a sign of weakness?

In a society that treasures independence, we struggle with the
notion that we should ever need help.


“If I ask you, then I owe you,” ripples through our minds as we
sit inside the safety of our home, wishing for freedom and
complaining about our circumstances. Besides, even if we did ask,
we risk the possibility that you might say “No,” leaving us open
to feelings of rejection.


It’s hard to ask for help, and it’s even difficult to offer it at
times. It’s frustrating to deal with the people who refuse to
accept help, lest you make a real human connection with them—one
where money and power diminish in exchange for a deeper human
connection.


We all have needs, and we all struggle with loneliness. Few of us
are willing to let our guard down long enough to experience the
pure bliss that is connection. The vast majority keep our walls
fully erect—to the death, if necessary.


How might your life be different if you lived and worked in a
community where difficulties were expressed openly, emotions had
the space to breathe, and hugging were as natural as breathing?
What if meaningful conversations were commonplace, and such
dialogue prompted not only healing, but also
accountability? 


While changing the world is overwhelming, consider the
possibilities when you lead the change within your community by
replacing your desire to—


Be in Control

Horde—opportunities, relationships, and things

Be fiercely independent



With a willingness to—


Connect through your struggles, and triumphs

Love and give, without condition or expectation

Allow for interdependence, and show affection, even with
total strangers



It’s risky, but is it worth it? What would you gain if you did?


Here’s to Your Greatness,


Misti Burmeister


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