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23.04.2017
51 Minuten
Want employees who care greatly about creating remarkable
results? Listen to this interview! Lee Cockerell is one of the
most down-to-earth and transparent leaders I’ve been privileged
to interview. Far beyond management and leadership, Lee got to
the heart of what’s needed to provoke greatness in yourself and
your team.
Enjoy!
Resources from the interview:
7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Zero to One
Learn more about Lee Cockerell’s speaking and online courses
here.
Here’s to your greatness,
Misti Burmeister
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08.03.2017
6 Minuten
“Why don’t they put more time and attention to that client? If
they don’t, they might lose them.”
“Can’t they see I would be excellent in that position? Why don’t
they consider me?”
“Don’t they understand that if they’d just have more team
building activities throughout the year everyone would work
better together? Collaboration clearly improved after our yearly
retreat.”
“Why don’t they spend a little extra money on the furniture in
our waiting area? At least they could provide fresh tea/coffee
and relaxing (or energizing) music for guests! Seriously, don’t
they understand that we’ll have a better reputation, and
therefore more customers, if we did?”
Ever find yourself saying or thinking any of the above
statements?
They, of course, are the responsible ones—the Owner, CEO,
Executive in charge. And if they’d simply listen to you, then
everyone would be better off, including them.
This is the way many of us think when faced with subpar
performance, communities, election results, and even our
workplaces. We see and hear a clear problem, even
life-threatening, and chose to pass the buck, saying, “It’s not
my responsibility.”
Those were almost the exact words Jackie said after I shared my
concern about a slick spot on the pool deck where I narrowly
avoided a serious injury. Concerned for others, I brought it to
the attention of a long-term employee, Jackie, who casually said,
“Yeah, we know about that spot.”
“You know that spot is there and you’re doing nothing to repair
it?” I thought, loudly while desperately wanting to shake her and
the entire leadership team.
Recognizing such an action (or even a complaint to the manager)
would do no good, I’ve begun thinking about how I can help. Not
because I have to—indeed, I’m a paying member—but because I love
swimming there.
The idea of asking myself how I can help fix that slick spot was
inspired by Dr. Marc Cesari, a chiropractor in Baltimore,
Maryland. As the only employee in a new office space in Towson,
Marc wanted the waiting area to be inviting, peaceful and filled
with inspiration. Rather than wait for the Owner’s approval to
outfit the waiting room, he bought the furniture, painted the
walls and ensures cleanliness.
“Wait, what—you paid for this furniture out of your own pocket?
It’s not your business—you’re his employee. Is he going to
reimburse you at least?” I asked.
“Yes, I did pay for it, and without asking for permission to be
reimbursed. If he can’t see the value of this furniture, then
I’ll eat the cost to ensure I get to work in a space I’m proud
of,” he responded almost as if everyone should behave in the same
way.
Indeed, such thinking aids greatly in getting the results we
want. In fact, it prompted me to send a message to the manager
asking how I can help remedy the situation. Not that I know a
thing about pool decks, but I’d certainly be happy to sand it
down if that would help.
What do you find yourself irritated with or complaining about?
What can you do today to be a part of the solution?
Here’s to Your Greatness,
Misti Burmeister
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16.02.2017
6 Minuten
Running beneath the surface of our conscious awareness is a set
of beliefs—sort of an autopilot of assumptions and expectations.
The role models we’re exposed to as children, along with the
stories we consistently hear, instruct our belief system and set
us up to repeat patterns that create the results we see every
day.
Do you know the beliefs you bought into as a child that continue
to create your current reality?
I thought I did, and then I came face-to-face with the reality of
an undesirable result I’ve recreated too many times to count.
Frustrated and angry, I’ve found myself lamenting to friends and
colleagues about how inappropriate some men have been,
particularly in a business setting.
“The guy’s a jerk,” they’d say, fully supporting my irritation at
the situation.
Which is true—some men are jerks, though none of them have the
ability to impact me without my permission.
Rather than waste any more time pointing a finger outward, I
looked inward and asked myself, “How am I behaving that’s causing
such interactions? Why do they think it’s acceptable to speak or
act in such a way toward me?”
Over the years, I’ve asked this question dozens of times and come
to the realization it was something I said or did, giving the
wrong impression. I sought to adjust my behaviors and set
stronger boundaries after each instance, which ultimately never
worked.
I was fighting inertia—a deep-rooted set of beliefs that were
instructing my behaviors. As a result, I continually found new
behaviors to elicit the same result and ended up increasingly
frustrated.
When I looked deeper, what I discovered was sobering and
empowering at the same time.
Somewhere along my journey, I bought into the belief that I
lacked inherent value as a person. For a whole variety of
reasons, I never developed a healthy sense of self-worth.
Though, until this moment, I thought my confidence and esteem
were quite strong!
Beneath the surface of my consciousness is a little voice that
fears inadequacy, loss and rejection. It’s the little voice that
grabs a hold of me and instructs me to use “proven” (learned)
strategies to ensure I’m liked, valuable and worthwhile.
Said simply, that strategy was flirting.
I understand that the only way to shift this result is to get
clear about two things: the value I bring and the challenges
potential clients are facing.
Today, I don’t go into a meeting without having a conversation
with myself about my own value, read some testimonials and plug
into my own sense of worth. This clarity has given me the ability
to focus on the business at hand and avoid the energy and time
sink of such negative interactions.
Rather than being caught up in a game of trying to be liked, I’m
finding enjoyment in uncovering real opportunities to help
leaders who want more focus, energy and greater impact in the
work they do. Now I have the time and energy to focus on helping
the ones who want the value I bring to the table.
What results do you find yourself continually experiencing? What
part do your beliefs play in these results?
Here’s to your greatness,
Misti Burmeister
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09.02.2017
5 Minuten
Why do leaders struggle to create collaborative work environments
where team members step up and do whatever it takes to create
remarkable results?
Is it because they haven’t set a vision that is compelling
enough? Maybe.
Is it because they haven’t counseled their team enough about the
importance of working together, despite the weekly—no
daily—reminders? Probably not.
Is it because the team hasn’t decided on a shared set of values?
I doubt it.
The biggest reason leaders struggle to rally a team is less about
what they’re doing and more about what they’re allowing.
While enjoying a delicious scoop of ice cream at my favorite shop
in Baltimore, MD (The Charmery), I listened to Lauren, a recently
minted lawyer, share about Waffle Wednesdays, a tradition she
started at the small district court where she works.
“I love to bake,” she said, as she went into great deal about the
pumpkin waffles she made in November, and then the stuffing
waffles with cranberry sauce and gravy she made in December.
“What’s your address?” I asked, “I’m coming over for breakfast!”
A smile graced her face as she shared about how nice it is that
the judge lets her bake the most exquisite breakfast for the
entire team once a month. “He sits there with us for a full hour
as we all get to have fun and enjoy non-work related
conversations,” Lauren shared.
“Let you?” I thought, as I wondered how many leaders miss out on
the cohesion that’s created from these kinds of joyful
experiences.
They’re so busy preaching teamwork instead of allowing their
team’s natural interests and passions to strengthen the kinds of
connections that bolster results and benefit everyone.
Of course, it’s the connection that makes work easier and more
enjoyable. It’s the connection that breeds compassion and
encourages team members to pick up the slack when someone is
struggling. It’s also the connection that encourages colleagues
to challenge each other to dream bigger and act braver, netting
better results for everyone involved.
As you begin thinking about how to get your team working more
collaboratively throughout 2017, consider how to allow non-work
related passions and interests to forge depth in connection.
Here’s to your greatness,
Misti Burmeister
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02.02.2017
7 Minuten
Company culture experts urge leaders to establish clearly defined
values to serve as a guide for decisions and behaviors throughout
an organization.
To ensure they have the best representation of the values shared
among those in leadership, companies often spend gobs of cash and
time on experts who ultimately produce a document aligning the
most common ideals.
Mounted on the wall, and often on the website, these key words or
phrases are meant to ensure everyone is on the same page about
what’s expected and acceptable.
While these values are typically inspiring and alluring, they
often fail to produce the intended result—a strong team
environment. In many cases, these key phrases wind up serving to
weaken trust, accountability, collaboration and productivity.
Stopping into Best Buy to exchange a gift I received for store
credit, I headed to the customer service line. Fortunately, the
line was quick and I was walking toward the exit in less than 10
minutes.
As I made my way toward the exit, I noticed a security guard
patting down the jacket of a guy leaving the store and found
myself concerned—“Did that guy steel something? Are they worried
he stole something? Are they going to pat down my jacket before I
can leave the store?”
As I approached the exit discomfort took over and I wound up
doing what I typically do in situations like this—say something
ridiculous.
“Can I be next? Do I get this same level of attention?”
“No, no…” both of them responded, with a sincere discomfort that
was palpable.
Moments later, the young man who was patted down caught up to me
and I asked him, “What is that all about?”
“All employees have to be patted down before they can exit the
store,” he said, and continued with, “Which is stupid because if
I wanted to steel something I certainly wouldn’t put it in my
jacket.”
“Why do they do that then?” I asked, seriously needing to
understand why any company would come to the conclusion that such
a practice was a good idea.
“I have no idea,” he said as he threw his jacket on and headed
off, “but it’s stupid.”
Later, I looked up Best Buy’s core values—
Unleash the Power of Our People
Learn from Challenge and Change
Show Respect, Humility, and Integrity
Have Fun While Being the Best
—and found myself wondering:
How does such a lack of trust allow the power of their people
to be unleashed?
Have they thought about identifying theft as a cultural
challenge and enlisting employees to uncover the necessary
change?
Does this practice show respect, or encourage humility and
integrity?
Does the executive team think such a practice is fun for
anyone involved, including customers? How is anyone supposed to
be their best with such a significant lack of trust?
While getting on the same page regarding values is important,
what’s more important is consistently asking, “How do we know
we’re living our values?” And, especially for those in
leadership, “Are my behaviors in alignment with our values? How
do I know they are?”
The key indicator to discovering the truth behind each question
is looking at employee behaviors, along with customer feedback.
If they aren’t living the values, perhaps it’s because the
leadership is confused about where the real values are born and
die.
Here’s to your greatness,
Misti Burmeister
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