Is Victim Mentality Keeping You Stuck?

What!? I don't act like a victim! It's another one of those
episodes where I'm gonna say all the stuff that no one else
will   I'm gonna call you out on the BS, with LOVE.
 Here's the truth; we've all had victim mentality in some way
in some situation in our life.  Usually it's in small ways
that you might not have recognized as victim mentality.  
Here's some examples: - You told your boss that you didn't get the
report to her on time because Karen didn't do HER part on time. -
You've said something like "you make me SO angry" (hint: no one can
MAKE you feel any certain way) - You've decided something like "I'm
this way because of you"   - You can't let someone else's
crappy behavior go and you keep stewing on it for way too long. -
Something bad happened to you and you've decided you'll just always
be "broken" - You're always "waiting for the other shoe to drop" -
If you get fired it's "because my boss is a total b&!*h" -
Something goes wrong and you just give up "what's the use in
trying?"   See? It comes out in little ways that we don't
always recognize as victim mentality.  The problem is we get
totally stuck here.  We get totally frozen in our victimhood
instead of taking responsibility for figuring out how to move
forward.   I also want to be really clear that I understand
that trauma is real, being an ACTUAL victim of something awful is
real, having to deal with terrible situations and terrible people
is REAL.  But you still have the choice of whether to let that
situation define you and keep you stuck in victimhood, or if you'll
do the work to move forward.     Today, I'm going there.
 You might feel a bit triggered, you might not like the
feeling of recognizing some of these things in yourself, but if you
want to get unstuck, you need to hear them.     If
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