193: Thruples and Polyamory – Kitty Chambliss

Seems non-monogamy is more and more common as gay men try to find
themselves in their relationships in a way that works for them as
individuals and as a couple, or even a thruple. So how do you make
it all work when Monogamy isn't the way. Polyamory expert Kitty
Chambliss joins us today to give you great insights on how to
thrive in your relationship when the typical just isn't going to
cut it. About Kitty A born-and-raised Philly girl with nothing more
than passion, a laptop and a dream, I’m proud to have created a
socially conscious mission that touches thousands. I am passionate
about helping people understand that they have a choice in
relationships and their lives in general. And then be proud of who
we see in the mirror, increasing self-worth (reducing depression,
shame and guilt). And if monogamy is not working for you, you can
choose ethical non-monogamy or polyamory. People cheat. LOTS of
people cheat. And many more people get hurt by their partners’
infidelity. I am partly fascinated by why people cheat. Being a
former cheater myself I at least know why I cheated. And I also
know how bad and guilty it made me feel. I used to think there was
something wrong with me. I had no idea there was another way to be
or to act or to handle relationships back then. I’m irritated that
I was never taught that there was another way. I also grew up in a
Catholic school being told that sex was only for procreation,
homosexuals were evil, and even THINKING about sex or (gasp)
masturbating was a surefire way to go to hell. This is a horrible
thing to teach our children, and I have spent my entire adult life
undoing the damage of this teaching. I even suffered from a form of
sexual dysfunction myself for years partly because I had f*cked up
feelings and guilt built up around sex. Sex negativity is
destructive. Let’s end it!  
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