Coming Out Later in Life: The Power, The Pain, and The Freedom – Mark Dembo

What happens when two grown men finally stop pretending and start
living as their fully authentic selves?


In this powerful episode, Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo
to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty of
self-discovery, and the liberating (and terrifying) freedom that
comes with being unapologetically you.


They cover:




Guilt, anxiety, and codependence in late-life coming out




Why authenticity is a leadership superpower




Couples counseling, redefining relationships, and facing your
truth




Coaching vs. fixing: helping people find their own answers




The reality of political “allies” who aren’t really allies at
all




Whether you’re on the brink of change or deep in the thick of it,
this episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to come
home to yourself.
About Mark Mark Dembo is a seasoned business leader, executive
coach, and passionate advocate for living an authentic life. After
spending years hiding a core part of who he was, Mark came out as a
gay man later in life — a journey marked by deep introspection,
courage, and ultimately, liberation. His story is one of
transformation, resilience, and the power of choosing to live fully
and truthfully. For decades, Mark lived a life that looked
successful on the outside — husband, father, professional — while
carrying the quiet burden of not being fully seen. Coming out meant
confronting fear, challenging old narratives, and stepping into a
life aligned with who he truly is. Today, Mark lives with
intention, vulnerability, and joy — and he's committed to helping
others do the same. Mark is now finding his true passion in helping
LGBTQ+ professionals — especially those coming out later in life —
navigate transitions, overcome imposter syndrome and
people-pleasing, and create lives rooted in authenticity and
purpose. He’s a community advocate working to ensure and preserve
LGBTQ+ rights and believes deeply in creating spaces where people
feel safe to show up as their whole selves. He is also the co-host
of the Coming Inside Out podcast, which explores the messy,
beautiful, and liberating journey of coming out later in life. With
empathy, insight, and lived experience, Mark brings heart and hope
to every conversation — and is on a mission to help others live and
lead with authenticity. Connect With Mark Instagram Podcast
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