App Fatigue, Real Connection & Becoming Your Own Damn Matchmaker – with Tammy Shaklee

Tired of swiping? You’re not alone.


Tammy Shaklee—LGBTQ relationship expert and founder of H4M
Matchmaking—is here to say what most of us already know: app
fatigue is real, and no one’s finding true love buried in DMs and
torso pics.


In this episode, Tammy and I talk about how real, lasting
connection happens offline—and how you can start being your own
matchmaker (without settling or apologizing for your standards).


Tammy’s introduced thousands of LGBTQ singles across the country
and built a matchmaking empire focused on compatibility, not
algorithms. We’re breaking down her signature method for dating
success, especially for gay men who are ready to stop scrolling
and start connecting.


You’ll learn:




Why dating apps are burning you out (and what to do instead)




How to create real connection in real life




Why being picky isn’t a flaw—it’s power




Ready to date like a grown-ass gay man? Hit play.
About Tammy Tammy Shaklee is a leading LGBTQ Relationship
Expert and President of one of the country’s top LGBTQ certified
matchmaking companies, H4M Matchmaking. Since founding the national
offline matchmaking company in Austin, Texas in 2012, Tammy and her
team have successfully paired thousands of LGBTQ clients across the
country that were seeking long-term committed relationships.
Utilizing skills honed in her previous career as a broadcast
journalist, Shaklee’s reporter objective instincts, acute listening
skills, and same-sex proprietary methodology, provide the ideal
foundation for identifying true compatibility. Her unique process
focuses on traditional introductions and dating for LGBTQ singles
who are interested in achieving relationship success that rivals
their professional success. An LGBTQ ally and advocate, Tammy
understands the challenges singles face when looking for a suitable
mate, as she met her husband through a matchmaking service herself.
Tammy and her husband, Clif reside in Daytona, Florida where she
runs her national company. When not actively pairing her clients,
Tammy is a regular relationship contributor to several LGBTQ media
outlets and mainstream publications. She is currently working on
the completion of her first book. Connect With Tammy Website
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