Episode 34: I Want You To Want Me

We all want to feel desired, but so often in relationships we get
into a place where it feels like one partner wants the other more.
  If you’re the higher desire partner, you’re probably feeling
lonely and scared - scared that your partner might not be into you,
and scared that you’ll get rejected if you initiate any kind of sex
or intimacy. In fact, you may even be withholding affection for
fear of being turned down!   If you’re the lower desire
partner, you might be feeling ashamed, like there’s something wrong
with you. You may even be tempted to start giving your partner
half-hearted sex or intimacy in an attempt to appease them.  
Unfortunately, none of these techniques end up being very
successful, and in fact tend to only reinforce the feeling of
imbalance.   In this week's podcast episode, we show you how
to unravel these painful dynamics.   Links & Resources:
Rediscovering Desire Mental Load Workbook Initiation 101
Masterclass Check out our YouTube channel   If you enjoyed
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full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed
bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you
had!   Check out the show notes at: vmtherapy.com/episode34
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