Episode 38: You Want Connection, Your Partner Wants Sex. Who Comes First?

There are two types of people: those who need to feel connected
before having sex, and those that need to have sex in order to feel
connected. In a cruel twist of fate, relationships typically have
one of each type of person. This can lead to a stand-off situation
that often manifests in long dry spells or straight up bad sex.
  In this episode, we give our surprising (and perhaps
controversial) answer to what comes first — emotional or physical
connection, and talk about how to end the ‘stand-off’ once and for
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