Episode 109: This ONE Thing Is Secretly Affecting Your ENTIRE Relationship

Are you frustrated by how sex gets initiated in your relationship?
Does the way your partner initiates feel boring, frustrating, or
annoying? Do you find yourself feeling too self-conscious or
awkward to initiate? If so, you’re not alone! We polled our
audience, and only 17% of people were happy with the state of
initiation with their partners.   Shocked by those initial
findings, we decided to dig even deeper with an in-depth survey.
Over 10,000 people responded! In this episode, we break down the
fascinating results. Who initiates most often? Who gets turned down
most often? Does having kids affect initiation?   Bad
initiation sucks in the moment, but it goes even deeper than that.
You might find yourself asking, “Is it me? Does my partner still
find me attractive? Do they not think I’m worth the effort
anymore?” You may find yourself losing attraction for your partner,
or desiring sex less. You might wind up arguing, going cold, or
questioning your compatibility. This is a big issue in
relationships, and it’s crucial that we solve it!   Links
& Resources: Guide:  The Art Of Initiation
(http://vmtherapy.com/initiation/)    If you enjoyed this
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