The Trauma Clinic: Let’s Get Sexy — When Power Play Becomes Regulation

Not because it’s edgy—because it lets your body feel
intensity without disappearing. In this short note I
take you into three real scenes: the living-room dusk where “Find
me” brings me back; the seven-minute kitchen moment that’s
ordinary and deeply regulating; and the hotel night where we get
it wrong and repair anyway. We talk about why aftercare
is half the healing, and how your body learns a new
rule: I can want and be safe. I can stop and still be loved.


For anyone who’s ever performed “yes” while their body said “no.”


Press play when you feel resourced. Then tell me what
changed—your breath, your eyes, the shame voice.
Want a tiny checklist + scene skeleton?


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Content note: consensual power play, trauma-informed sex.