94: From Half a Husband to a Whole Marriage | How to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal

Can a marriage truly heal after porn addiction and betrayal
trauma? In this powerful episode of The No More Desire Podcast,
host Jake Kastleman sits down with Matthew and Joanna
Raabsmith—coaches, authors, and a couple who’ve walked the road
from addiction and deception to deep connection and true
intimacy.


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In this episode, you’ll hear:


The real impact of porn addiction in marriage


How betrayal trauma affects the spouse of an
addict—emotionally, neurologically, and relationally


Why secrecy and double lives destroy intimacy—and how truth
begins healing


The difference between boundaries and control in recovery
relationships


Practical steps for rebuilding trust after porn
addiction


What it means to take full personal responsibility in
addiction recovery


Why most couples get stuck in imbalanced recovery
dynamics—and how to shift them


Tools from their Intimacy Pyramid framework that help couples
reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physically




Whether you're struggling with addiction, supporting a spouse who
is, or both, this episode offers wisdom, validation, and hope.
Matthew and Joanna are proof that recovery is possible, and that
with the right tools, couples can move from surviving betrayal to
thriving in renewed trust.


Learn more about Matthew and Joanna’s work at
RaabsmithTeam.com or order their book Building
True Intimacy


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visit NoMoreDesire.com





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