99: Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife

Do you feel sexually broken from years of porn addiction and
compulsive masturbation? Like you've damaged your body, your
mind, and your marriage—and there’s no way back?

In this episode of the No More Desire podcast, Jake Kastleman
explores the reality of self-inflicted sexual trauma and what it
truly takes to overcome porn addiction. You’ll learn how to stop
watching porn, confront your shame, and begin the process to stop
for good.

We talk honestly about how masturbation addiction rewires your
brain, damages intimacy, and leaves men feeling spiritually and
emotionally numb. You’ll discover how to rebuild sexual intimacy
after porn, heal your relationship, and reconnect with your body
and your wife.

Using the lens of Internal Family Systems, neuroscience, and
spiritual truth, Jake helps you reclaim healthy masculinity and
take responsibility without self-condemnation. This is about
emotional healing for men, the kind that leads to deep, lasting
men’s sexual healing and the freedom to love with
integrity.

Whether you're navigating porn and marriage issues, seeking
Christian porn recovery, or trying to restore intimacy after
sobriety, this episode offers the tools and encouragement to take
your next step.

Because healing isn't just about quitting behaviors—it's about
becoming whole again.


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How Do I Stop My Husband From Watching Porn?


My Wife Ignores My Progress With Porn Addiction


What Do I Do When My Wife is Triggered?





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