Support When You’re in the Thick of a Thing

Today we’re talking about support yourself during the hard
seasons—and what it looks like when you have to be your own safe
place.


Some seasons are heavy.
Some days, getting out of bed feels like a miracle.
Some days, breathing through the next hour is the biggest victory
you’ll claim.


In this episode, I’m sharing what support looks like when you’re
in the thick of a thing — when there’s no map, no quick fix, and
no easy way to name the weight you’re carrying.


We’re sitting with the real and the raw:




How support can mean letting yourself fall apart without
rushing the cleanup.




How being your own safe place might be the softest, hardest
thing you do all day.




How support during hard seasons often starts with giving
yourself permission to not be okay.




If you’re in a season where life feels too heavy to dress up in
pretty words…
If you’re breathing your way through sadness, loneliness, or
silent grief…
If you’re learning how to stay soft with yourself when the world
expects you to be hard…


This isn’t a how-to guide.
It’s not a motivational pep talk.
It’s a soft landing.
A real-time reflection.
A slow, sacred breath in the middle of the storm.


Because even in the thick of a thing, even when you feel like
you’re falling apart, you are still worthy of support —
especially your own.
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Shirl is the creator of Support Languages and host of Shades of
Strong — a movement shifting the narrative from Strong Black
Woman to Supported Black Woman through language, rest, and real
support.