Chris Jarvis Mini Series - Episode 4 How To Deal With Peoples Reactions When You LEVEL UP! Be The Giraffe | The Tim Castle Show

In this episode we discuss how to manage friends and family when
you experience success. When you are pushing in a different
direction to the herd, how do you manage it, what can you do to
make it less painful.

Chris shares how he attempted to do this "horribly" at first but
then after a gigantic realisation was able to move in line with
his goals, ambitions and success without feeling triggered by
others.

One quote in particular stood out...What we do know is, "If
you listen to all the voices in the herd, you will stay in the
herd, it's a guarantee" - Chris Jarvis.

As ambitious leaders, we know we must do things differently, that
risk is inherent to the path we must tread. The key is when
people are really confident in what they believe they don't try
to convince you of what they believe.

Do you feel guilty about your success?

Do you understand why when people are afraid for you, they are
just showing concern? When you level up, when you make it happen
in your life how to view the reactions of others.

If you're going to be a leader, you have to accept the fact that
you're not like everyone else.

You break free from the herd. You are going to have to accept the
inherent risk. Realise that you are going to be different.

Leaders have a different role. They are not trying to get
everyone to agree.

If you want to live a super successful life, be prepared to take
risk, to stand out, to differentiate.

Understand how to navigate friends and family and loved ones when
you have to go lead. We discuss what people say verses what
people mean.

The follow up to the question is, who do I spend time with?

Spend let time with the people that stress you out or make you
uncomfortable.

Put yourself in environments that are more positive.

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