1477 Is Anger Good for Your Marriage?

Most people are quick to judge when it comes to anger.
But what if the reverse was positive? Is anger good for your
marriage?


As much as there is a negative part in anger, there can be a
positive part. Emotions serve a variety of purposes, both good
and bad.


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So you can choose to stay stuck in the negative and think only
how anger can be destructive. I have shared my stories regarding
anger.


However, there is so much more when it comes to how anger can be
a bridge to discovering what might be happening at a deeper
level.


Anger is mostly a secondary emotion, with fear, frustration, and
hurt being the primary.


When you experience an emotional rush, you must understand the
root of where it's coming from, the root cause.


What is that trigger? We all have those triggers that push us
over the edge. It's the BUTTONS that charge us.


You have buttons that charge you and bring out the worse.


Emotions produce energy. And it's how we use that energy...for
the good or bad.


I want you to think as these BUTTONS from the reverse and create
a chain reaction for the positive.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Create a chain reaction for the
positive!

You know that anger will occur in your marriage. This can stem
from hurt, fear, and frustration. We're all too familiar with
this.


Create a chain reaction, because you care deeply about something
or desire to impact what you see as wrong. This is the button you
want to push.
What is the purpose of this feeling, the root
cause? This opens yourself up to understanding on a deeper
level what you care about. You get mad or upset because there is
something within you that says, "This means something to me."
How is this anger serving me? Is this a crutch I
use to get what I want? Or do I really have a sensitivity to the
situation at hand? You will begin to notice a trend or pattern when
it's more than, "I want my own way". Where does it connect
to my heart? Emotions are the voices of your heart. It's a
way for your heart to be heard. So what is your heart telling you?
This is the next step of going from reaction to responding.

Anger can be volatile. You must be in charge of it before it
becomes in charge of you.


Anger can overtake your marriage. Or you can overcome anger using
it to paint the bigger picture.
"God gave you a heart and a brain. Emotions and logic
to ignite your life! Use them in a way to change the
world."

CHALLENGE: How are you going to ignite something good
within? 


 


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