1694 How Can Marriage Thrive in Conflict?

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. It opens the
door of discovery or destruction. So how can marriage thrive in
conflict?

First, you must understand what conflict is. It's a serious
disagreement or argument; a clash of opposing needs, wants, or
wishes.


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I can think of many "conflicts" in our marriage. But the
difference is how you choose to handle those differences.


Conflicts can be simply specks of dirt on an average day. But
if you let that dirt pile up, serious consequences can occur in
your marriage. Pretty soon, you can't see the floor. You have
years of messes that seem impossible to overcome.


So when you look at conflict, this is a disagreement between
you and your spouse. You don't see eye to eye. It doesn't have
to be big either. Small disagreements can add up to big ones
eventually.


If you look at the disagreements and differences as ultimatums
(your way or the highway), then conflict can grow rapidly like
a weed.


What's sad, is many couples face this every day. They don't
know how to handle disagreements. Each person relies on their
up-bringing or past experiences. Not many couples go in with
confidence regarding resolving conflict.


Our society doesn't know how. We get on our soapbox (i.e.,
social media, girlfriends, family, etc.) and talk bad about the
other person. It's all about slamming before the other can slam
you.


However, if you choose to approach conflict with compromise,
you as a couple can actually thrive in conflict.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Approach conflict with
compromise!

Conflicts are problems that can inspire us to mend things, fix
things, and better things. Instead of looking at conflict as the
enemy, embrace it as opportunity for discovery.


During dating, you were in a season of discovery. When conflict
arises, think of it as a moment of discovery.


Listen to the story or reasoning to understand the heart.



Most of us are jumping to conclusions before we even know the
backstory. We all have a backstory. Learn the story to understand
the heart.
"Open your ears so you can hear the story of the heart
near and dear. Let the facts lead the way to understand what
matters today. Conflict instills compassion for all, you just have
to be willing to let the hurt fall." ~ Kristianne Wargo

Marriage is not about you. It's about the two of you. You are in
the throws of life together. You're better together. So don't
settle for the dump truck of destruction. Reach out for the
compromise and thrive!
"One step at a time leads to miles of
greatness!"

CHALLENGE: Seek out areas where you can
compromise and thrive!


 


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