1715 Stop Ranting and Start Raving!

Marriages can become intense, for better or for worse. But
when things get heated too often, it's vital to stop ranting and
start raving!

How do you think about your spouse? How would you describe your
spouse?


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Well before we get too deep, let's get on the same page as to
the meanings.


Ranting is an angry speech of criticism or
accusation. (Tirade is a synonym.)


Raving is to speak or write about someone or
something with great enthusiasm or admiration. (You're very
fond of this person.)


Most would prefer to have someone rave about them.


Unfortunately, many find themselves murmuring under their
breath or in their head about how terrible their spouse is.


What do you whisper in your head about your spouse?


Is it something you would be excited to share? Or would you be
ashamed to share those thoughts?


I must admit, I have thought some not-so-good thoughts. My
husband would make me mad and I would complain in my head how
he doesn't care. I do all the work. Why am I always the one who
is wrong? He is wrong the majority of the time. Who does he
think he is?


This is real life! Now understand, this comes from very early
on in our marriage. I always thought of myself as "the single,
married mother".


And it was true. But not everything I thought was truth! A lot
was blown out of proportion because of my anger.


Our thoughts can distort a situation. It can cause us to react
in a way that's more negative-driven than positive; seeing more
of the bad than the good.


At some point, you have to come to realize that neither of you
are perfect. Both of you will make mistakes, lots of mistakes.


But ultimately, you have to get off the ranting train and start
raving!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Stop ranting and start
raving!

The more you focus on tearing down your spouse, the more broken
your communication will become, which leads to a marriage in
crisis.


However, if you stop ranting and start raving, then you can
crush the cycle of negativity and begin to build a stronger
foundation with grace, compassion, forgiveness, and
unconditional love.


So how do you stop the rant and start the rave?
Mute the whispers that your spouse is not
good enough. Compliment daily, both verbally and
silently. How can I serve you? What can I do for
you today? "When you quiet the rant, the rave explodes
exponentially." ~ Kristianne Wargo

You see more of the good and less of the bad.


REFLECTION: What do you need to quiet in your
thinking when it comes to your spouse?


Awareness opens the opportunity for healing and forgiveness.

"Stop ranting and start raving!"

 


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