200: Understanding The Hidden Pain Behind Your Kid's Anger

In this episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa Smith
explores a transformative approach to handling anger in
parenting. Guided by Eckhart Tolle’s wisdom, “Where there is
anger, there is always pain underneath,” Lisa explains how to
look beyond the surface of your child’s outbursts to understand
the vulnerable emotions hidden below. With real-life stories and
actionable insights, Lisa shares how getting “curious, not
furious” can create breakthroughs in connection and emotional
growth for you and your child.



What You'll Learn:




The "Curious, Not Furious" Approach – Learn how adopting this
mindset can uncover your child’s true feelings behind their
anger.




The Iceberg Model of Anger – Discover why anger is only the
tip of the iceberg and how diving deeper reveals vulnerable
emotions.




Practical Techniques for Emotional Connection – Explore
actionable strategies to identify and validate your child’s
emotions.




Real-World Examples of Compassionate Parenting – Hear
relatable stories of parents navigating anger to build
stronger bonds.




Self-Reflection Practices for Parents – Understand your own
reactions to anger and what underlying emotions you might be
shielding.




Building Emotional Intelligence in Children – Help your child
develop emotional resilience by teaching them to manage and
communicate their feelings.