2: "You Are Only Good" | Overcome Porn Addiction by Knowing True Self

What if I told you that you are only good? That there is no bad
in you? What if I told you that your being contains no evil or
fear, but only love? 


Most likely, this sounds like a strange concept. Either it brings
up memories of pop songs that say “You’re amazing just the way
you are” or mother’s kissing their children on the forehead as
they tell them “you’re perfect.”


Before you head out on a road of misgivings, let me
explain. 


Porn addiction recovery requires a major shift in perspective. If
we want to quit porn, we must learn over time to center our focus
on the things of peace, connection, and depth. And so, we must
understand that we - and all around us - are, in truth, only
good. 


This is because there is not only one “you”. Rather, there are
two versions of you, my friend. What are these two versions? They
are the ego and the True Self. 


Addiction comes from ego - or the false self. The ego bases its
identity upon past and future, strengths and weaknesses, history
and choices, and the opinions of others. The ego bases its
self-worth upon what is fallible - possessions, accomplishments,
status, etc. It feeds off of fear and seeks to remain separate
from others. Porn addiction is born within this mental and
spiritual space of separation. 


Then, there is the True Self. This is the self we must come to
recognize if we want to overcome porn addiction. The True Self is
whole. It knows only the present moment. Past and future do not
exist for the True Self. It knows its oneness with all beings and
with Higher Power. Its only desire is to extend goodness to
everything that exists. 


Which of these versions of self do you believe is the real you?
To learn more about how to tap into the True Self and get rid of
pornography addiction, listen to my latest podcast episode: Ep.
2: You Are Only Good: Get Rid of Porn Addiction by Knowing True
Self.

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