DAY 13 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | You Don't Have to Be Anyone's Ride or Die

Have you been or are you now someone’s ride or die? In today’s
episode of Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding,
Shirl and Natty give you a peek inside at what being the ride or
die has looked like in their lives from a romantic and parental
point of view…


…because just in case you’re wondering, you can be a ride or die
to your parents as well. As a matter of fact, you can be a ride
or die to anyone in your life, and you don’t have to settle for
toxicity in your life just because “that’s still your dad” or
“that’s still your mom, or your sister, or your brother, or even
your child”. Yes, they’re “still your parents”, but they’re also
still the persons who did that thing to you. 


Being a ride or die is about fighting to prove your love, your
trust, your worth to someone who probably don’t deserve it. The
bottom line is, you shouldn’t be fighting to prove your love or
worth to anyone, including your parents. 


Click play and get into this goodness that is today’s episode and
when you’re finished we would love to see your face in the
Shades of Strong Facebook Community where you
can connect with other Black women and have open and honest
discussions about things that concern us individually and
collectively. This is a safe space where we can lean on each
other in times of trouble and unrest, and dance with each other
in times of celebration. 


Sis, if you find that you’re fighting to prove your love and
worth to others, please consider joining us in the Sista
Circle of Healing, so that you can start your journey to
healing. The next cohort starts November
9th. 


Other Episodes in This 30 – Day Series


Day 10 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhidng |The Fight Trauma Response
& Cookie Lyon
Day  9 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Ride or Die That
is Cookie Lyon
Day 8 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Is Cookie Lyon an Angry
Black Woman
Day 7 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding, |Kick People Pleasing to the
Curb
Day 6 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | Ten Whole Years of People
Pleasing
DAY 5 People Pleasing A Harmless Act of Love or a Mental Health
Risk?
Day 4 Uncaping Unmasking Unhiding | Why We Become People
Pleasers
Day 3 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding |The Side Effects of the
Black Superwoman Syndrome
Day 2 Uncaping, Unmasking, Unhiding | When Love Becomes
Kryptonite
Day 1 — Uncaping, Unmasking, and Unhiding the Strong Black
Superwoman
Superwoman Must Die | Slaying the Strong Black Woman Syndrome


Superwoman Quiz


Are you
a perfectionist, master
performer, people
pleaser, or people prover?


Take this 4 minute quiz & get a breakdown of your superwoman
archetype & how you can use this knowledge to start healing
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